As Above.......
Some of the people in your life frustrate you because they're a reflection of you.
I'll say that again.
Some of the people in your life frustrate you because they're a reflection of yourself. Sometimes they're reflecting the thing(s) you choose to ignore about yourself.
Okay here's an example. You have a friend/family member/lover who is stubborn as hell, and you bud heads, or maybe they're selfish, or maybe they're extremely carefree.
Now that selfish person might be projecting behavior that resembles your thoughts. Maybe you do so much for others before yourself that your thoughts are so spiteful, and your mentality has morphed into this mindset that despises generosity. The imbalance of "give & receive" in your life has caused a burden. So it's projected in the actions of those around you.
Or maybe you're stubborn, but you fail to realize. So someone is brought into your life to give you a reality check and challenge you. But if you're stubborn, it might take you minute to realize that, that's whats going on. You're so focused on condemning their actions, that your emotions cloud your observation and logic.
Maybe you're the person who lives life by the rules of the system, or through the lenses of everyone else outside of yourself. A carefree person would drive you crazy. They are the polar opposite of you. If you two morphed together there would be total balance. But because you live in complete imbalance on opposite spectrums, you have become each others duality so to speak, and until you meet each other within your true self balance, you'll continue to be each other's antagonizers.
It's easy to get so worked up on why someone else seems to be off beat, and how it messes up your structure/ comfort zone... But don't allow yourself to neglect your main concern.... YOURSELF. "How you gon' win if you ain't right within", and how can you evolve if you're focused on what makes you uncomfortable... Maybe it's time to expand your comfort zone, and you're just fighting the process (which is natural, but honey get with the program before the ship leaves you behind).
There's this saying that I resonate with: "As above, so below" which to me it means all of your actions, are reflected by its duality. Both sides of a situation or an interaction will always be affected. It's also best to keep in mind the things that affect the subconscious, just because it's easy to ignore doesn't mean it's not happening. Your thoughts create your reality, so take care of your mind and watch your train of thought. Your thoughts also impact the lives of others more than you give it recognition to, so be careful of how you think of others.
And I know you probably read that last sentence with certain individuals in mind like "so what?!", but listen... Whatever thoughts you project onto others in spite, will return back to you ten fold. That's the karmic ties and energy playing itself out through the law of attraction. That's also the very example of "as above, so below".
So basically what I'm saying is, if you want perfect harmony in your life, you have to have a positive mentality. Cut some slack towards the people around you, because you're most likely just frustrated with yourself in a nutshell. Acting out of frustration feeds the fire, it won't solve anything. Consider both sides, people's behaviors have reasons and they also have a purpose in your life (good or bad). When you go around policing others, especially if the situation has no direct affect on you, then you're looking at things from a shallow and disabled point of view. Aim to see the bigger picture at all times, and you'll live a less agitated and anxious lifestyle.
I'll say that again.
Some of the people in your life frustrate you because they're a reflection of yourself. Sometimes they're reflecting the thing(s) you choose to ignore about yourself.
Okay here's an example. You have a friend/family member/lover who is stubborn as hell, and you bud heads, or maybe they're selfish, or maybe they're extremely carefree.
Now that selfish person might be projecting behavior that resembles your thoughts. Maybe you do so much for others before yourself that your thoughts are so spiteful, and your mentality has morphed into this mindset that despises generosity. The imbalance of "give & receive" in your life has caused a burden. So it's projected in the actions of those around you.
Or maybe you're stubborn, but you fail to realize. So someone is brought into your life to give you a reality check and challenge you. But if you're stubborn, it might take you minute to realize that, that's whats going on. You're so focused on condemning their actions, that your emotions cloud your observation and logic.
Maybe you're the person who lives life by the rules of the system, or through the lenses of everyone else outside of yourself. A carefree person would drive you crazy. They are the polar opposite of you. If you two morphed together there would be total balance. But because you live in complete imbalance on opposite spectrums, you have become each others duality so to speak, and until you meet each other within your true self balance, you'll continue to be each other's antagonizers.
It's easy to get so worked up on why someone else seems to be off beat, and how it messes up your structure/ comfort zone... But don't allow yourself to neglect your main concern.... YOURSELF. "How you gon' win if you ain't right within", and how can you evolve if you're focused on what makes you uncomfortable... Maybe it's time to expand your comfort zone, and you're just fighting the process (which is natural, but honey get with the program before the ship leaves you behind).
There's this saying that I resonate with: "As above, so below" which to me it means all of your actions, are reflected by its duality. Both sides of a situation or an interaction will always be affected. It's also best to keep in mind the things that affect the subconscious, just because it's easy to ignore doesn't mean it's not happening. Your thoughts create your reality, so take care of your mind and watch your train of thought. Your thoughts also impact the lives of others more than you give it recognition to, so be careful of how you think of others.
And I know you probably read that last sentence with certain individuals in mind like "so what?!", but listen... Whatever thoughts you project onto others in spite, will return back to you ten fold. That's the karmic ties and energy playing itself out through the law of attraction. That's also the very example of "as above, so below".
So basically what I'm saying is, if you want perfect harmony in your life, you have to have a positive mentality. Cut some slack towards the people around you, because you're most likely just frustrated with yourself in a nutshell. Acting out of frustration feeds the fire, it won't solve anything. Consider both sides, people's behaviors have reasons and they also have a purpose in your life (good or bad). When you go around policing others, especially if the situation has no direct affect on you, then you're looking at things from a shallow and disabled point of view. Aim to see the bigger picture at all times, and you'll live a less agitated and anxious lifestyle.
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